please stay...my babe...who knows when we'll dance again
i really should get started on that damn essay. i really should stop eating late at night, i think i'm putting on weight
i want a baby panda. they're so cute :) can you imagine? they'll make great living room decor and they can give you hugs when they're big.
here's something that just crossed my mind. WOMEN and their BOOBIES.
yes i am female. and yes i have my own rack. so do other women. what happens when you step out into public is that there's a possibility that people will stare/talk to your chest. its an extremely strange situation to face, especially for young girls, and MEN TALK TO OUR FACE PLEASE, but the fact is that it happens. what i cannot stand is how some people, including other women, can blame women for having their chests stared at. its one thing to talk about women who wear tops with plunges and whatnot, but some men just stare regardless. they stare at your chest even if you're in a coat, hell even in baju kurung too. maybe there are just men out there who are scumbags and paedophiles who wear sunglasses in public transport so they can ogle away at women's chests.
yes it happens.
a male friend told me once.
it has come to a point for me personally where i dont really care if people look or not, as long as i think i look nice. it might sound vain, but i'm dressing for me. and although i do dress to impress on occasion, thats a whole different story.
another thing to bear in mind is the context in which the chest-staring occurs. at a pool or beach where you're swimming, well..what d'ya think. in public transport..well, it happens. maybe i just learned to shrug it off.
its just disturbing how some women can blame the women for getting ogled and what not. HALLOO?? there are MEN who are just twisted ok? there are males who just STARE. maybe they're not getting any at home, maybe they're going thru a drought of some sort, maybe they're paedophiles. or maybe they dont realise it.
and if YOU are a male who STARES AT WOMEN's chests, to a point, it can be forgiven if you dont realise you're doing it, and need us to tell you to talk to our faces. but it is unacceptable when you stare with your mouth agape, or are in a position of authority in that particular moment.
boyfriends and significant others get first dibs so you're spared from my wrath.
MY WRATH.
but if you DO stare at other women's racks when you are with your girlfriend, i daresay she should slap you.
i have had enough of people blaming women. blaming them for being raped, blaming them for getting stared at, blaming them for not being able to help themselves, blaming them for god knows what else. if anyone says that to my face...you'll get creamed for it. you know very well you will.
and if it dont get into your thick skull after that you chauvinist pig or you pretentious women with double standard...then go off and be on your own merry, inbred way.